Use these questions as a guide to take care of the precious gift of recovery

that we have been so freely given.

Spiritual Condition:

  • Do I have a sponsor? How often do I call?
  • Have I finished all my steps? When was the last time I did my steps?
  • Do I have a group of women that I am in contact with weekly?
  • Do I have a home group?
  • Do I arrive early and stay late to reach out to others?
  • How do I participate in my home group? (set up/clean up etc.)
  • What service commitments do I have?
  • Do I sponsor other ladies? Have I taken other women through the steps?
  • What am I obsessed about? What action steps am I taking to be rid of the obsession?
  • Do I ask God to help me stay sober each morning?
  • Do I thank God each night for keeping me sober?
  • How is my relationship with my God? Do I spend enough time with Him?
  • Do I practice Steps 10, 11 and 12 daily?
  • Do I keep a gratitude list? How often do I write one?
  • How many meetings do I attend each week? How many do I need for my emotional sobriety?
  • Do I isolate?
  • Do I use H.A.L.T.S (hungry, angry, lonely, tired, sick) on a daily basis?
  • Do I live an honest life?
  • Have I forgiven myself and others?
  • Do I have any resentments? Secrets?
  • Do I live my life with integrity?
  • Can I forgive others? Can I forget?
  • How often do I get angry? Do I argue with others?
  • Can I agree to disagree? Can I let it go? Do I have to have the last word?
  • Do I do nice things for others without being found out?
  • Do I believe that what others think about me is none of my business?
  • Do I act better than I feel?
  • Do I attend spiritual retreats? AA conferences or conventions?

Personal Program:

  • Do I pray every day?
  • Do I have regular contact with my family?
  • Do I allow extra time to get things done or get to places on time?
  • Am I comfortable in my own skin?
  • Do I do mean things to myself?
  • Do I compare myself to others?
  • Do I have more positive thoughts than negative thoughts each day?

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